Hello Friend.My name is brandy
I see you.
Every thread of your being has changed since becoming a widow.
You might feel lost and hopeless, wondering how this could be your life. Wondering if your best days are past.
I see you because I am just like you.
I am on my own widowed journey and multiple loss journey. Losing both my husband and dad in a two-year span all while raising an infant and toddler really did a number on me. My dad and husband where such as integral part of me. Sewn into every fiber of my life.
Losing them was like losing a part of my identity.
Angry can’t even begin to describe how I felt about it. I have come to realize that there really are no words to describe the intense amount of pain, agony, desperation, and despair I felt. You might be feeling this too.
The Good News
There is hope! I decided to face the facts; moving from barely surviving to thriving was going to take work. But I could do it.
I tried to do it all on my own.
First, I used my faith as a weapon by telling myself that “all I really need is the Bible and God would do the rest.” The bible is a blessing, but the problem was, I wasn’t doing anything specific to help my situation. After a few years of trying this tactic, my life was still a complete mess. I heaped onto the mess even more suffering by telling myself I wasn’t a strong enough Christian. I was in terrible shape.
Then I found life coaching.
Actually, life coaching found me…or better yet, what I really believe is God put life coaching right in front of me. I didn’t even know what life coaching was! My first thought was “why not? Nothing else has worked.” I was desperate for change. For help. To live again. I signed up and made an agreement with myself that I was going to do whatever it took to at least tolerate my life.
Drum roll for the best news!
I did the work. It was hard. Very hard and very emotional, but I am so glad I did it because I truly love my life now. I never ever thought I would say that. Not in a million years. So I’ll say it again.
I truly love the life I have created for myself.
This doesn’t take away from my time with my husband or how much I will always will miss him. It has everything to do with how I decide daily to show up in this world. He would be proud.
I believe in God and a Heaven.
I know he is there right now, probably having a blast. So, I decided if he can have a blast up there, then I can have a blast down here. And that’s exactly what I am doing.
1. Seek and follow God’s will for me.
2. Raise my children to follow suit.
3. Help Others do the same.
I thrive on helping others.
My heart goes out to all the widows in the world trying to find their way. I would be honored to come along side you and help with that process.
One on one.
Dedicated to you.